Yes! There is a perfect man just for you!
- Silvia Metodieva
- Jul 21
- 3 min read
I think you know women who are often complaining that their companions are too meek and timid, or that there are no more brave and strong men in the world. Are you aware of why? I think you already know the answer, but let's just say it: because women have turned into skirt-wearing males! In this life, everything is in harmony. Moreover, you must be a woman with a capital "F" in order to have a guy with a capital "M".
Accordingly, males are classified according to their abilities, values, and priorities, much as women are divided into four archetypes. The ability to regulate and balance these four states is what it means to be a true man. Every woman dreams of a man who embodies all four of these stereotypes.
One of these four archetypes is more prevalent in most situations. However, you could have observed that regardless of how carefully you select a man, you tend to draw people with similar traumas.
You must be aware of the archetypes and their shadows in order to determine which one is ideal for you. Let's remember them:
1. Alpha : enjoys risk, luxury, and money. ambitious, the life of the party, domineering, and a businessman. He has trouble forming familial ties and is prone to polygamous relationships. He cares about public opinion and finds it crucial that others think well of him. He drives a fancy automobile, wears brand clothes, and takes care of his appearance.
Shadow – Does not take responsibility, unpredictable, values his freedom, does not commit seriously to women. Constantly flirts. Immature man.
2. Creator: accountable, pious, devoted, and serene. He frequently considers his partner's viewpoint. For him, having harmony in his inner world is crucial. He resists the allure of material possessions. He tends to make concessions. He typically finds himself in the realm of poetry, music, painting, etc.
Shadow: He has no interest in anything else when he is focused on his work. He can be really aggravating at times. He doesn't make much money.
3. Merchant – Money is his priority in life. Successful men, strong and confident. They know what they want and stand up for themselves, ready to take risks – they love adrenaline, high speeds, and masculine qualities. They love money as a symbol of success and significance. Shadow – He is most interested in money and women – lots of women! He does not like and does not communicate with people from the “common people”. “Gazari” – he dresses in designer clothes, drives expensive cars and surrounds himself with women – buns.
4. Manager – Impresses with intelligence, authority and justice. Likes to control and dominate. Has difficulty entering into relationships. It is important for him that the woman obeys him. Shadow – Domineering, selfish, wants everyone to obey him. Likes to control, dominate. The woman next to him is a pampered princess, he takes care of her, but only as long as she obeys him unconditionally. The woman is for him an “image”, an appendage that nourishes his self-esteem.
And do you actually understand that knowing the archetype of your partner is important, but understanding the other side of the same coin is no less important? How trauma can activate the "shadow" sides of archetypes and how this can explain many of the challenges in relationships is something that is achievable. You can become the perfect woman for the right man for you.
If you want to know the men better, you can take my webinar and watch it in your comfort zone at home. 4 MAN'S ARCHETYPE | Silvia Metodieva Lif
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